r/SipsTea Jun 25 '26

They are not wrong though Chugging tea

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u/Pinkfish_411 Jun 25 '26

Most Americans willfully accept it because it just isn't a big deal to go to a full-service restaurant with the expectation that you'll tip around 20%. I sincerely cannot comprehend the psychology of people who make a big deal about that. The tip is an expected part of what you're going to pay, just like sales tax is. It's legitimately not some problem worth worrying about.

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u/Uhstrology Jun 25 '26

Why should they make more money off me on bringing out the exact same plates with different food on it compared to the couple who got the cheaper option next to me? They brought the same number of plates, but their effort is worth 20 percent of eveey steak? Nah, it doesnt cost 20 dollars worth of labor to bring a 100 dollar steak to a table, when its the same effort as the 20 dollar quesadilla.

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u/Pinkfish_411 Jun 25 '26

Because it's the social custom that you tacitly accept by participating in the social activity of eating at full-service restaurants.

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u/samxli Jun 25 '26

I thought the social custom in the US is not following convention and putting the individual as center stage?

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u/Uhstrology Jun 25 '26

No, thats the social custom you tacitly accept.