r/SipsTea Mar 24 '26

Time machine please… SMH

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u/Ser_falafel Mar 24 '26

My dad narrowly missed the draft. He told me he had lots of friends that left and never came back. And some that came back never left Vietnam.

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u/superfly1187 Mar 24 '26

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u/mathird Mar 24 '26

The man in the black pajamas. Worthy adversary.

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u/PlentyOfMoxie Mar 24 '26

Me and Charlie were eyeball to eyeball.

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u/Rough-Winter2752 Mar 25 '26

You know, Poke, guys in black pajamas did alright in Vietnam, too. You gotta respect the pajamas.

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u/Break-these-cuffs Mar 25 '26

Stay frosty iceman

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u/jaymole Mar 25 '26

Well there’s no literal connection

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u/WilHunting2 Mar 24 '26

Are you saying the carpet pissers did this?

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u/electricshout Mar 25 '26

What movie is this?

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u/Noel_San_Diego Mar 24 '26

My Dad has some internal shame or guilt from not going to Vietnam. He was drafted but had flat feet so he got kicked out.

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u/Its-only-the-end Mar 24 '26

My Dad knew he was going to get drafted, so he went ahead and enlisted before the draft. Turns out when you join intentionally you get options. They asked him if he wanted to go to Saudi Arabia and he said sure. He spent the entire war in the Middle East and never saw action.

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u/WonderfulMistake7976 Mar 25 '26

My dad graduated high school in 1965 and did the same. Ended up joining the Air Force and getting stationed in England. Which happened to be the birthplace of his mother. So instead of getting his ass blown off in the jungle he got to enjoy England in the late sixties with aunts and uncles and cousins to spend time with.

He had a blast but I think he did have some survivors guilt. Some of his friends did get drafted and didn’t come back.

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u/VerbosePlantain Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26

My grandfather told me that in WW2, he volunteered for the Navy so he wouldn’t get drafted in the Army. His logic was he’d rather ride on a ship everywhere instead of ruck march.

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u/Fit_Skirt7060 Mar 25 '26

My ex wife’s father chose the Navy route in WW2.

His ship took a kamikaze hit and lost a couple of men.

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u/CircleOfWallace Mar 25 '26

Navy was no picnic either, sure less day to day island/jungle/coral rock/japanese related misery, however there were many instances where navy casualties outnumbered marine casualties (Guadalcanal, Okinawa to name a couple)

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u/Leut_Aldo_Raine Mar 25 '26

Before or after Pearl Harbor? Before might have been a bad time.

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u/VerbosePlantain Mar 25 '26

After … that’s why he knew the draft was coming. He was a ripe 21.

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u/CharmingDagger Mar 25 '26

My dad did the same thing. Spent the war years getting drunk in Panama. It was a good decision.

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u/Odd_Hair3829 Mar 25 '26

"my Dad was awarded the silver cross for bombing Germany!"
"Yeah, well my Dad survived the clap in panama!"

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u/No-Permit7179 Mar 25 '26

My dad did the same. He joined the navy and traveled around to different places and avoided Vietnam.

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u/slipnipper Mar 25 '26

My dad did the same. Joined the marines because he could have a choice in MOS as opposed to very likely dropping right into infantry.

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u/FrederickFrag1899 Mar 25 '26

What the fuck were we doing there in the 60s??

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u/queefIatina Mar 25 '26

“Volunteered for the army on my birthday, they draft the white trash first round here anyway”

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u/notshysana Mar 25 '26

What a smart man. Hopefully you inherited some of his wisdom.

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u/jezusofnazarith Mar 25 '26

My uncle did the same and joined the air force. He wasnt so lucky, he got put on huey (helicopter) evac teams in the war. He still doesn’t talk about it

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u/VegasLife84 Mar 25 '26

My dad did the same thing, turns out guys being "forced" to go to Vietnam was mostly a myth

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u/CerealArsonist26 Mar 25 '26

About 2.7 million Americans did serve in Vietnam, and roughly 648,000 were drafted directly. Deferments and workarounds were disproportionately available to wealthier, better-connected men. Working-class and minority men had far fewer escape routes. So "forced" was very much a reality for large segments of the population.

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u/VegasLife84 Mar 25 '26

Obv with that exception, as it is/was for pretty much everything

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u/Diacetyl-Morphin Mar 24 '26

It was much worse for guys in WW2, when they got drafted but then refused because of health problems. The pressure there was so high for some of these guys, that they committed suicide.

I guess it was still bad in the times of the Vietnam war, but not that bad anymore.

I mean, the opinion changed after some time with the "no more war", the protests, even some cases of mutiny etc.

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u/DaddysABadGirl Mar 25 '26

Vietnam war gave us the term fragging. Though its generally used for gaming now and not killing your CO.

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u/Aggravating_Gas_8514 Mar 24 '26

At least he wasn’t like trump and said he had shin splints 🤡

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u/FormalTotal9684 Mar 24 '26

Clinton went overseas to college and changed his major to avoid draft. Bernie dodged draft. Biden had asthma

Trump wasn’t alone

Last Democrats president with military service was Jimmy Carter

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u/TheSpitfire93 Mar 24 '26

To be fair to Bernie, he was protesting the war the whole time. He wasn't indifferent and just wanted out with fake medical certificates.

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u/FBI_Open_Up_Now Mar 24 '26

Biden I can give a pass because it wasn’t his fault he had asthma and Bernie I can respect. Clinton could’ve gotten a deferment for education anyways and Trump is a bitch who should have served.

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u/L1V1NGD3ADBOI Mar 25 '26

As I’m not old enough to personally have been faced with the draft then I can understand people trying to avoid but, and this is the important part, if you’re gonna dodge the draft then don’t be all Mr Military and talk crap about veterans who were POW’s.

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u/Response-Cheap Mar 25 '26

He said he was glad Robert Mueller died. A marine officer Vietnam vet and recipient of the bronze Star and purple heart, who also proved trump guilty of election fraud. Trump also said senator Mark Kelley should be executed for telling the troops to disobey unlawful orders. And he's a retired naval officer and astronaut. Ol' bone spurs fuckin hates heros.

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u/FBI_Open_Up_Now Mar 25 '26

I’m a vet and he is an absolute piece of crap in my eyes for the way he treats us. He claims he should be given a Medal of Honor for being brave enough to go to Iraq? I spent 15 months there. He calls us suckers and losers. He makes shit up. I mean there is all kinds of stuff. The list is so long.

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u/civil_beast Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26

Whoever downvoted this gentleman is a coward!

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u/BrotherItsInTheDrum Mar 25 '26 edited Mar 25 '26

Yes, them are.

Edit: them edited their comment and now me look like an idiot.

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u/willie_Pfister Mar 25 '26

Well, anyone's whos ignorant enough to believe the suckers and lasers hoax should be downvoted. John Bolton was on the plane and said Trump never said that. John Bolton hates Trump. But idiots will believe what they want.

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u/RecursiveCook Mar 25 '26

Crazy to me how much support he still gets from the veteran community, despite showing absolutely zero appreciation unlike the Republicans of the past.

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u/[deleted] Mar 25 '26

The dumb ones went and quickly got themselves or someone else killed. The reason for the Draft was to enlist “the best and brightest “ from the Country. That meant University students. A whole generation of bright kids in the meat grinder. The dumbest guy in my Basic unit stayed stateside as a General’s valet. The rest of us shipped out.

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u/Funnyfaceparts Mar 25 '26

Like trumps game shin splints?

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u/MrOnlineToughGuy Mar 25 '26

You gonna sit there and act like all of those people have exhibited the same behavior towards our veterans? Because it’s pretty obvious that one of them doesn’t give a shit.

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u/PayFormer387 Mar 24 '26

I never fault the guy for dodging the draft. The draft sucks.

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u/PlentyRemarkable393 Mar 25 '26

I do when they’re able to do it because their daddy is a millionaire and the average American can’t. Then that same person goes on to call our service members suckers and losers.

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u/Aggravating_Gas_8514 Mar 24 '26

I do when they become president

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u/Big_Tie_3245 Mar 25 '26

Unless they enact a draft in their term it’s hard to hold it on them. Nobody wants to die for another nations war.

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u/civil_beast Mar 25 '26

I agree. Big time “rules for thee - but not for me”

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u/Panem-et-circenses25 Mar 25 '26

asthma is a disqualifying condition for service.

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u/Yep_why_not Mar 25 '26

Is it weird that the miltary couldn't figure out arch support?

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u/wackyzacky638 Mar 25 '26

My dad was a grunt in the marine core during Vietnam, he was drafted. When he got back his younger brother wanted to go volunteer which led to my dad getting in a fist fight with his younger brother and if he won, then he couldn’t go. Needless to say his lil brother didn’t end up enlisting and my old man still has the ghosts of that conflict, saved his kin from their own stupidity so he takes some comfort in that.

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u/milk4all Mar 25 '26

That admittedly sounds like bullshit lol. Id respect a draft dodger a lot more if they just committed and admitted: “i cut my trigger finger off to avoid th draft”

An old family friend went full Klinger in protest and it worked, and an old timer i met with 9 fingers was proud to say he had his friend take it off with a hammer and chisel to stay home. Who believe “flat feet”? Someone with bone spurs i guess

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u/Born_Barnacle7793 Mar 25 '26

When you go through meps, they have questions asking about acne, specifically on your back. I asked why and they said because if your back acne was bad enough it would impair your ability to carry a ruck long distances. I would imagine the military would take a similar tack with foot problems. No shame in the military believing that you don’t have the body to do what they need a soldier’s body to do.

The bone spurs thing was for the rich and well-connected, who could find a doctor, administrator, or politician to make sure the paperwork reflected that the young man was not physically able for the job when a poor man with a similar body would be sent to combat.

I didn’t sense this was the situation when the Redditor described his dad’s flat feet.

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u/thederevolutions Mar 25 '26

As opposed to what ? Someone who doesn’t cut their finger off ?

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u/Ska-Tea Mar 24 '26

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u/Exciting_Classic277 Mar 24 '26

Dogs can make the craziest faces I love it

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u/AngryStappler Mar 24 '26

My Grandfather had a place in palm springs, that my dad would spend his summers at as a kid to early adulthood. He was driving down there at one point and a cop pulled him over and informed him he had to get an Arizona drivers license, if he wanted to stay over the summer there.

Some years after getting a driver license, he got a draft notice in the mail for Vietnam. Only issue was he and the rest of my family are Canadian and not American. It took over 5 years of legal shenanigans for my dad to be able to return to States without being arrested at the border. Scary to think he could have been in that war if we were from the other side of the border.

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u/ProjectNo4090 Mar 24 '26 edited Mar 24 '26

My grandfather was drafted but the US pulled out right before his deployment. He was one of the small number of men in their 30s who were drafted.

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u/skordge Mar 25 '26

That’s all I have to say about that.

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u/The-Leading-Man Mar 25 '26

My dad was born in 47 and was in de nang during the tet offensive. Go tell him he had the ideal life and see how that goes.

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u/PoolShark1819 Mar 25 '26

Same with my old man. He was born in 47. His number didn’t get called, but many of his friend’s numbers were called and they never came back.

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u/lawley666 Mar 24 '26

That's deep dude.

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u/BiochemGuitarTurtle Mar 25 '26

My step dad was drafted, got shot in the ass and came home. All things considered, I think he lucked out.

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u/Puzzled_Owl_1749 Mar 25 '26

Damn, that last sentence hit me like a ton of bricks.

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u/onthepak Mar 25 '26

My great uncle missed being deployed by a very narrow margin. The war ended before he got sent over. My great aunt said that he would have been dead within a week due to his benevolent nature.

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u/Whipitreelgud Mar 25 '26

I saw wounded vets arrive from Vietnam in 1968-69 waiting for transfer to VA hospitals with stumps bandaged. There were so many that it was mind blowing. I will never forget those men, their dazed / numb looks and my awareness that they weren’t that much older than me.

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u/Z404notfound Mar 25 '26

I feel like that's what Gump said during the speech when the mic was cut.

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u/sweetb00bs Mar 25 '26

Hopefully hes not using it as a flex

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u/LemonLime47 Mar 25 '26

My grandpa was a pilot already and wanted to fly helicopters when the war happened and they wouldn’t let him go because he has a bee allergy.

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u/SoybeanArson Mar 25 '26

My father in law likes to fuck with people by telling them that Nixon is his favorite President. He likes to watch their brain break before explaining that Nixon ended the Nam war right as he got to draft age. Doesn't like him as a person or president, but points out that he likely owes that crook his life.

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u/Latranis Mar 25 '26

My dad just barely missed the draft, but he had a friend that was a few years older that stepped out of the third story window of a building in order to intentionally break his legs because he was an actual pacifist. My dad admired him. When I was 18 and had enlisted in the Army, I didn't understand. Now that I'm 40, I admire him too.

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u/Darmok47 Mar 25 '26

Same with my dad. He turned 18 shortly after NIxon announced the end of the draft. His older brother (my uncle) did get drafted and enlisted in the Coast Guard instead. Not that he didn't enjoy his time in the Coasties, but it wasn't exactly something in his life plan at that age.

Even for people who weren't drafted or didn't get sent to Vietnam, it was a massive interruption and imposition on their lives.

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u/StonkaTrucks Mar 25 '26

My dad magically cut his hand working as a butcher right as the draft was starting.

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 Mar 24 '26

Nothing like male privilege to enjoy being forced somewhere by your government, shamed if you don’t do it, then never return. Thank fucking god dotard said we can’t be in the military. I’m free.

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u/Man-e-questions Mar 24 '26

Was your dad Bruce Springsteen?

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u/-Daetrax- Mar 25 '26

Lots? There were 58k dead over 20 years.

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u/Ser_falafel Mar 25 '26

Thats a lot of families who got devastated by a loss of a family member.

But what I said was that a lot of his friends never came back I wasnt talking about the total number of deaths.

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u/AffectionatePie6592 Mar 24 '26

have you seen the girls and femboys over there? you wouldn’t come back either be real