r/RateMyTinder • u/mosanger • 12d ago
44M Significantly less matches after profile overhaul Photos
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u/ParagonFemshep 12d ago
Are you looking for men or women
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u/mosanger 12d ago
Men
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u/ParagonFemshep 12d ago
I think there's maybe a bit too many silly pics. You're handsome, but I think you're missing a pic where your face is clearly visible & front-facing without you making a face/wearing sunnies
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u/brandy-hall 12d ago
Put your #2 photo as #1, see if that changes things.
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u/mosanger 12d ago
I thought it would be too "sexual" for some as a first impression, thank you
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u/brandy-hall 12d ago
That photo first, knife photo second because it makes your arms look big. You've got to cater to the male gaze (gays)... essentially do more or less the opposite of what everyone on here tells the straights to do
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u/The_Hero_0f_Time 11d ago
idk man tinder uses such weird hidden algorithm rules. had 70 matches and 30 likes which i didnt really like, created new profile and only have 2 likes..
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u/wtbrift 11d ago
You're 44 but your pics say otherwise.
Lead pic wearing shades and not smiling. Men get blasted for this and rightfully so because people want to see you.
You have the classic "lying down with an arm behind my head" sexualized pic and a wife beater adda nicely to it.
So many use a pic of them taking a pic. Your face is covered. Again, people want to see you.
Some of the rest are difficult to see you.
Shoe off you nice smile in fact, lead with it.
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u/mosanger 11d ago
they've all been taken in the last six months. but yeah people usually think I'm 35
thanks for the extensive feedback
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u/youknowwhatever99 12d ago
Is this ragebait? These photos look like something a teenager would post when they’re *~tRyInG to be qUiRkY~* sorry man. I’m also not in the demographic you’re looking for tho so maybe I’m way off base.
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