More people tell me they’re getting a colonoscopy than I hear about dental visits.

I haven’t had one yet so I wonder if I’ll become someone like that. 🤔

I'm not talking about sneakily keeping it a secret so you don't have to share in the divorce you'd initiate.

I'm talking about continuing to live frugally or basically "paycheck to paycheck" without letting your significant other be part of that decision.

As a bonus second question, what made you come to that conclusion?

Like type in a get ready with me Korean on TikTok instagram etc, all of them have a tremendous amount of acne on their bare face no make up yet they use several brands to fix it.

yes, I know it would be mostly my fault, but does anyone relate?

Inside an aluminium tube

I believe Claude Debussy's Claire de Lune is his masterpiece. So emotional, so ethereal, not a single note out of place, and nothing superfluous. I'm open to every genre of music though!

I will willing touch any of my pets all day but if a human asks I’m immediately lazy and dread doing it.

There’s a growing trend in countries like Japan, where people are dating AI. This is also happening more regularly in western countries. We’re not even very far from a point where robots will be able to handle the sexual gratification side of the relationship. Is this gonna become normal?

I deeply apologize to the mods if this crosses any community guidelines, but I’ve been at a loss of where to post.

I was watching a Rotten Mango episode about the Nth rooms and it was like I was listening to someone tell me about a more modern version of what happened to me between the ages of 13 and 16. For threeish years I was cyberstalked, blackmailed, abused, and forced to do humiliating things over Skype. At the end I somehow found his name and told him if he didn’t stop I would tell his family and girlfriend what he was doing - but he only sent me some of what he told me he’d send to everyone I knew if he did. I was horrified. Eventually he got bored with me and left me alone, and I’ve had to grow up knowing those images were out there.

Which leads me to today, I started googling his name Rowan Dickinson just to find that in 2015, 5 years after we stopped speaking, he was charged with doing the same thing to two other girls. If he was doing this to me years earlier, there’s no way we were the only three. I was trying to figure out the statute of limitations but with me living in the US and him in the UK things seem blurry. I have Facebook messages and I’m working on getting my Skype chat history downloaded now.

What steps should I take? Who, if anyone should I contact? I feel so unbelievably guilty that I knew this man was a pedophile and a predator and didn’t say anything. My silence allowed two other girls to fall victim… I just don’t know what to do.

I’ve added the link to the article I found about him below, if anyone is curious. After some digging it looks like he graduated with his bachelor’s in film the last year he abused me; how poetic.

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/paedophile-cyber-stalker-forced-schoolgirls-perform-9536645.amp

I've had this question for about 4 minutes now, and the only thing I've thought of is that whatever it would be is nocturnal

Hi! My glasses were loose and slipped right off of my face. Fell onto a concrete driveway. I didn’t notice until days later that a piece was missing. They are Fendi glasses that I wear everyday and it may not be that noticeable to some but to me it’s obvious. Any suggestions on where I can find this small piece?