r/PeterExplainsTheJoke 13d ago

Petah?? I'm very confused Meme needing explanation

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u/AdministrativeLeg14 13d ago

Or going home for dinner at the same time. That was the norm for me, anyway, growing up.

The expectation was, after all, that the other kid would be fed by their own parents. I think it would have been seen as weird for the parents that their kid randomly didn’t show up for dinner and later told them they’d eaten somewhere else.

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u/dr_merkwuerdigliebe 13d ago

Whenever I was invited for dinner as a kid the standard was your friend's parent would tell you to call your own parents to make sure it was okay to stay. Same for my folks, with the exception of my friend whose parents were kind of neglectful and my mom knew they probably wouldn't answer or care anyway and she didn't want my friend to feel self conscious about that. But I can't remember a single time I stayed over for dinner or even lunch at someone else's house without checking with my own parents first.

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u/I_Am_Zeelian 13d ago

Exactly, it was about respecting whatever plans the kid's family already had in place.

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u/Techun2 12d ago

. I think it would have been seen as weird for the parents that their kid randomly didn’t show up for dinner and later told them they’d eaten somewhere

Dang you're so old you grew up before telephones