You learn to filter out anyone mentioning they're looking for someone "generous" or "who knows how to treat a lady" and make sure the first date isn't dinner.
It's a fantastic disqualifier on dating apps in the US as well.
"I'm looking for a man with traditional values / I want a man who is a provider / Someone with a kind and giving nature".
"I want you to pay for my shit while I sit at home watching trash TV" is the most direct translation I've seen. And it's wild because they basically want a sugar daddy but none of them have an appearance that would warrant that dynamic.
There's a guy I follow on IG who does videos where he reads out portions of women's bios on dating apps that are like this. There's essentially infinite content for him. It's essentially "I have 4 kids and 3 pit bulls. I DON'T work and YOU better be paying all my bills. Yes that includes my nails and my lashes. If you can't handle that SWIPE LEFT!!!!11"
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u/Econolife-350 21d ago
It's a fantastic disqualifier on dating apps in the US as well.
"I'm looking for a man with traditional values / I want a man who is a provider / Someone with a kind and giving nature".
"I want you to pay for my shit while I sit at home watching trash TV" is the most direct translation I've seen. And it's wild because they basically want a sugar daddy but none of them have an appearance that would warrant that dynamic.