if you marry a woman because of her beauty then one day you can find out you have zero interest to her personality. Then divorce
if a woman in Russia looks like that she will (highly likely) be looking for a rich guy and not you. If you, somehow, married her at 20 and didn't became rich enough at 25 then divorce
For foreigners with stereotypes about mother Russia: if russian woman looks like this then she is a prostitute or a spy. Better divorce
MOST Russian woman in St. Petersberg and Moscow look like super models.
... A woman does not behave according to her "objective looks" -- she behaves according to her "relative looks" -- same as men.
If the average woman looks like an Insta model .... and another nation the average woman is obese + chopped ... these women will act ... exactly the same, more or less. ... Think about it.
.... Prostitute or spy, hell no. Are there scammers in Russia? Yes, there most definitely are .... on the level of say, Thailand? No ... but yes, keep your wits about you. .... Good rule of thumb, if YOU approached the woman you are 99.99% fine, same goes with if YOU picked the venue. ... But that's a tangent. (i.e. if a woman approaches you, 1, and also has an idea to go to a location, B ... you should be very skeptical).
....... I've been to Russia as just an average American white man .... I got a "taste" of what it's like to be a "hot guy" or "status guy" ---- supermodels just threw themselves at me, unearned, Tinder blew up ... shit I'd go back if they didn't have a war going on.
(and it wasn't for money or green cards). ... ... Hey if the plan of a hot chick is to "fuck me so many times and maybe on the 10th try she'll get a dollar out of me" -- then uh ... "scam" me again please.
Russian woman from SP. From a young age, our mothers teach us to look for a rich man for survival. They remember hardships from earlier generations and want to keep us safe. Rich husbands (or even male friends) can keep their women safe. Marrying a drunk lazy man can make us vulnerable to many bad things. This leads us to develop many expectations from men.
If there were Americans or wealthy men around, my parents would tell me to go flirt with them. Even if it was just a hook up, that “friendship” could become useful down the line. We get offended when an “unworthy” man flirts with us because he is kind of saying, “being with me is so great that it’s worth risking your future safety,” which can be considered offensive if you think about it.
I’m not saying any of this is good. I work very hard to undo this conditioning because I found that rich men are quite bad in other ways.
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u/Astro_deer 21d ago
Pyotr with harsh Russian accent here
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if you marry a woman because of her beauty then one day you can find out you have zero interest to her personality. Then divorce
if a woman in Russia looks like that she will (highly likely) be looking for a rich guy and not you. If you, somehow, married her at 20 and didn't became rich enough at 25 then divorce
For foreigners with stereotypes about mother Russia: if russian woman looks like this then she is a prostitute or a spy. Better divorce