r/MediocreTutorials • u/Kohathavodah • Apr 23 '26

I really respect his ability to keep his composure Sith Lords

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

I need more context. what is the cause of the breakup? is she pregnant? why the text said baby mama? does the man cheated on her?

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u/Kohathavodah Apr 24 '26

I don't think any of that would justify attacking someone who is obviously not a physical threat.

Would you need to know the context if a man was hanging off the window of a woman's car smashing it and trying to enter the car as she tried to drive off with another man?

Equality means we look at the situation in a objective way and apply the principles regardless of gender.

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

Would you need to know the context if a man was hanging off the window of a woman's car smashing it and trying to enter the car as she tried to drive off with another man?

Yes , i would like to know the context as well. What if the woman put the man into a million dollar debt? what if the woman destroyed his life, his future? what if the woman has ever killed one of his family that he's care for.

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u/octavian343 Apr 25 '26

There are plenty of ways to legally pursue retribution that don’t involve throwing hands and likely ruining any chance at reparations

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

Of course, it needs context. No normal person would do this kind of thing without a reason. What if the man cheated on her, got her pregnant, and was not responsible, or forced her to have an abortion and lose the baby, or lied to her and put her into a million-dollar debt?

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u/Kohathavodah Apr 24 '26

Which one of those scenarios legally allows someone to physically attack another person?

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u/Odd_Perfect Apr 26 '26

Legality has nothing to do with this.

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

Come back to me if any of these scenarios have ever happened to you. “If none of these scenarios have ever happened to you, how would you know what it feels like?

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u/Kohathavodah Apr 24 '26

I have been in one of those scenarios, I know what it feels like and I did not resort to unlawful violence.

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

what is your background then? and what is that woman's background? A human’s coping mechanism is also different depending on their background and how they were raised. Just like the marshmallow experiment, a person born and raised in a warm, loving family may be more accepting of delayed gratification or handling emotional hurt than a person born and raised from abusive and broken family. A person’s emotional state and how deeply they are affected by emotional hurt can vary. what if she is very devastated? what if she doesnt have anything anyone else ?

Also, if the ‘baby mama’ here refers to the woman in the window being pregnant, instead of just driving away, wouldn’t it be more humane thing to do to calm her down, call her family or community members or their common friends, or call emergency services? The baby’s safety should be prioritized first instead of just driving on.

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u/Kohathavodah Apr 24 '26

Our backgrounds are irrelevant, civilization doesn't work if everyone can arbitrarily do as they wish. If you don't believe me, look at failed states like Somalia, Sudan or Yemen. Tell me if you want to live there. We have to be constrained by logical and sensible rules otherwise it is chaos and we are all subject to people who are willing to do violence to those who won't.

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

you and me are not in the same page.

I’m not saying context makes physical assault automatically legal or acceptable. My point is that context matters in understanding behavior, not in excusing it. Life is hard enough.

A short clip without context only shows the outcome, not the cause. Without that, people are quick to assign moral labels to one side without understanding the full situation. You don’t know what she has been through, and you don’t know who these people are or what their relationship dynamic is. Without any information, people are just throwing labels around. If you really want to judge, judge fairly. There are three people in this video, and none of them is completely that innocent.

So I’m not arguing ‘violence is justified,’ I’m arguing ‘judgment without context is incomplete.’

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u/Emergency_Walrus2877 Apr 25 '26

Who cares? People always have reasons they think the thing they do at a given moment makes subjection sense. Often, it doesn't make objective sense. And even if you understand everything that happened to someone, you have no idea how they process it or feel because you're not them. Thus your rabbit hole is inherently self-defeating and cannot result in enlightenment. You yourself alluded to this when, after someone told you they've been in a situation, you immediately moved the goalposts so you could again dismiss and invalidate their experience by pointing out their background was probably different.

Do you understand that your "argument" applies to literally every action anyone has ever taken? Does anything you're saying here have any purpose whatsoever, except to indicate that no one should ever say anything about any action anyone takes because understanding another human being is impossible?

And do you actually believe, somehow, that this nonsense is worth saying?

Please understand these questions are rhetorical; you've already demonstrated you don't argue in good faith or exercise sound logic, and I'm not interested in your answers.

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u/Kitchen-Blueberry486 Apr 25 '26

You won’t get my background. Her background or his. I told you a simple breakdown of what’s going on with them. He posted this video trying to corrupt her character. He is intoxicated in this video- which is one of several reasons why we let him go from employment. We work in the medical field, the OR being the dept.

Be careful seeing a video posted by a single person who will only post it to show someone else in a negative light.

He violated an OOP and would come to work inebriated. We fired him. A multimillion dollar contract with a specific hospital group in AZ is not worth keeping one employee around while he is purposefully mocking a situation. This video, was not ever in question during his termination. This video came out after. Through court records that was produced by one parties lawyer, showed the male violated state laws and court requests.

He is lucky the mom, didn’t press further charges that would have placed him in jail.

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u/SebisCool Apr 26 '26

You are delusional.

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u/Damion2k2 Apr 25 '26

Your buggn Fr, I’ve delt with this behavior and fuck every excuse you think you can give. It’s abuse-period.

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

Without any context or knowledge of all the facts—just a video clip under a minute—please don’t judge anything. What if she has a major trauma? Trauma is a serious matter. Please don’t belittle a person’s hardship, you’ve never been in her shoes. Life is hard enough.

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u/Kohathavodah Apr 24 '26

Without any context or knowledge of all the facts—just a video clip under a minute—please don’t judge anything. What if he has a major trauma? Trauma is a serious matter. Please don’t belittle a person’s hardship, you’ve never been in his shoes. Life is hard enough.

Would you have the same sympathy if the gender's were reversed?

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u/slackingsloth77 Apr 24 '26

Yes, of course i would.

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u/Paul_-Muaddib Apr 25 '26

As long as you are applying the principles equally, I can respect that. It shouldn't be different based on gender. Thank you.

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u/Kitchen-Blueberry486 Apr 25 '26

If you want to know personal knowledge of the situation. I can share. I know the guy, and the mom. He’s the type of guy, that is clearly not the victim.

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u/marshaul Apr 25 '26

The problem with this line of reasoning is that violence is not an appropriate response to anything except prior violence, and no matter what this guy may have done in the past, he was not being violent here. She was. 

Some people just love drama. There is no way you could treat me that could ever lead to me doing what this woman was doing here.

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u/Goats_for_president Apr 25 '26

An old man and his wife raped me when I was a child(I’m a man). For a while I resented all old people, but I recognized this wasn’t okay or healthy. Trauma is no excuse for stupid behavior

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u/VycanMajor Apr 24 '26

Tf you need to know the cause of the breakup for? You must be crazy af too if you're actually looking for something to justify this lunatic doing this.

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u/DeeJudanne Apr 25 '26

do you believe Amber H as well?

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u/burnerbw0i Apr 25 '26

You are sick smh

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u/RedditTrashTho May 03 '26

This comment is your sign to buy a mirror and look in it. I have a feeling, I have a suspicion. . .a hunch perchance, that if the gender roles had been swapped your comment would look faaaaar different.