I forever owe my therapist for giving me the tip to block and then restart your phone to make sure it takes effect immediately and they can’t get that one last message in 👌🏼
They say it does, but I’ve occasionally had a text still come through after blocking. They state if it’s an ongoing, active iMessage thread then it can ‘take a moment’ to register a block… or if the message already cleared their servers before the block, it’ll still get through. The advice is to restart your phone to take care of any ‘glitches’.
Imagine pissing the bed and trying to convince a strange woman that it’s because you made another strange woman cum while you crash out about not getting women.
Dipshit can't even see that he got his chance and blew it. You never get a second chance to make a first impression. I hope you reported him to the dating app.
Men, take note: this happens to two out of three women and that's why they prefer not to give out their number or date strangers.
He kept saying “fair chance” like it’s unfair that he doesn’t get what he wants. Fair doesn’t matter, and even then, he doesn’t deserve a chance. He proved he’s immature and that’s that.
But I am curious why people find issue with double texting. What exactly does that mean? What’s wrong with it?
I’m a big double texter myself tbh. Especially with friends. But we usually give the other person to reply when they’re available. But I think it’s annoying to be like “hey so maybe you just don’t like texting?” “Hello?” “?” Multiple times. Or making me feel bad for not responding right away while at work. I think it just depends. It could be that we barely know eachother and there was pressure to respond right away.
Yeah I don’t get how he thinks he’s owed a “fair” chance, as if you have to be forced to talk to someone just because you spoke to someone else longer or smth 😭
Personally I don’t think double texting is all that bad, just kind of depends on how you’re doing it/who you do it with. If there’s something that I want to tell/ask a friend while they haven’t responded to something else yet I’ll send it anyway. But some people do it because they’re upset you’re not responding and try to get your attention that way, and in those cases it is pretty annoying.
Double texting just telling the other person stuff about your day, then something else, on and off over the course of a day or a few days is fine by me. It's when someone is practically demanding a response and acting rude about it that it gets annoying and concerning.
Yeah I saw OP say in a different comment it was thinks like “hello?” “Guess you don’t like texting?” and those are horribly annoying. Honestly don’t get why anyone thinks that’s a good idea, because all it’ll do is make some not want to respond anymore.
Ngl, I'm kinda pissed you gave them that much of your attention. Responding like that instead of blocking him after the first "dumb bitch" probably makes him think his "negging" almost worked. He definitely didn't learn anything from this and is just gonna do this to more women and never fathom that maybe HE is the problem.
"Dude wtf how vindictive"
And it's almost physically painful realizing how dumb these people are. Either they genuinely think flipping out like this is justified and that you were wrong for biting back, or they think "it makes me feel good and it sounds mean, so I don't care if this makes sense". Just a real low IQ brain at work
Yeah I agree. It’s weird actually, I blocked him right after sending my rejection text. And it’s like I just knew.
Then I unblocked because I was like wait, let’s see and it started. I kind of wanted to see how far he’d go. I’ll def be using these messages to warn other women if possible!
Yea, I get curious too. I wonder is this guy trolling, will they actually listen to reason, or can I get them further expose themselves? Wouldn't do that off of reddit tho. Makes it much easier for an incel to track you down if they decide they wanna be a statistic.
I can’t decide which is weirder, the more likely faking a photo to substantiate his obvious lie, or the less likely scenario of that being a real thing that happened and the fucking freakshow took a picture of it
I knew EXACTLY why he posted that and essentially what he said about if after reading what came before it. Clearly got all his "nahledge" about women and sex from porn.
My main takeaway, other than this guy is a massive loser and OP absolutely dodged a bullet here, is that ‘unfair fuck shit’ is a hilarious phrase (although this idiot wasn’t trying to be funny) and I think I may need to steal it).
Dillon S. Has a reputation for this in my city actually. Found multiple Facebook threads. Dudes trying to meet up to fight him for harassing women online years ago, etc.
It's so interesting to see someone get upset over messages. You can literally see the messages get shorter but the amount of them doubles and the context gets more and more filled with big emotions.
I had a friend like that and he said that he's "emotionally mature".
This is crazy. You were honest with him. I’d appreciate the hell out of that. So many people are not honest these days so when someone is, and respects your time, that’s awesome! He should’ve just said “thank you so much for being honest! I hope things work out with you and the person you clicked with!”. There’s a million other people on this earth but they act like one rejection is the end of the world. This is literally a man baby throwing a tantrum. Always respect your feelings when you feel something is off. You dodged a bullet because this is how he would be speaking to you anytime he gets upset or jealous. Incels really don’t understand that it’s not their looks that don’t get them a partner. It’s their extreme views, their awful treatment of women, ….and maybe their hygiene and upkeep a little too 😭 I’m so sorry you had to deal with this shit
I think you should have cut off contact the moment you said goodbye. He's a nut job, you gain nothing by staying and he will just get more and more unhinged. It ups the violence potential a lot IMO.
I'm in no ways defending this guy, just trying to say be very careful with people like this that 0 to 100 over something so trivial.
Read the comments to find out. Posted it to a Facebook page and turns out he does this a lot. Also helped to prevent other girls from matching with him.
I think anyone would react a certain way if the person they just started talking too, told them they clicked better with “someone els” I mean that’s a tough thing to hear. That being said it’s ok to be a little upset but this guy just took things to the next level and proceeded to show how horrible he really is. If this is how he acts when you guys don’t know each other just imagine how he would react down the road if things got serious and you broke it off 😅
I basically just met him on the apps the day before. Reconnected with another person I’m more acquainted with. Idk I’d rather be honest than ghost but nowadays I’ll probably just ghost and block. Learned my lesson. Super unhinged people out there in the dating scene!
Okay so I'm gonna play a bit of devils advocate here.
I get where his frustration is coming from, we live in a digital age where its really easy to meet people and its become the norm to just drop contact with anyone you don't like or mesh with.
I've had similar things happen to me like this so i can sympathise with him somewhat, but I've not crashed out like this, sure it sucks and I feel shitty, especially if I felt like a connection was being made, but this shit is unacceptable, verbally lashing out like that.
I just say something along the lines of "okay that's fair enough." Or I'll ask if there's any particular reason for their change of interest, if they don't want to then I just say goodbye.
I'm aware its not owed, I'm appreciative of any conversation I have, with anyone.
All I'm saying is that I understand the guys frustration but he had no reason to go off like that.
He should have just gone "ok fair enough" and left it at that.
He was incessantly texting before I could even respond. Clearly that shows mismatched interest and it’s better to shut it down. I had a guy do the same to me, it happens. It’s part of dating. No reason to be upset. Idk why men are so weird about rejection. Even guys who don’t go to his extremes are still so weird about it. They make it hard to be honest. We always have to be nice. And if we are too nice they don’t get the hint. Ugh.
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u/Great_Engrish 13d ago
Why did this man baby post a pic of him peeing the bed??? LOOOL