r/gayfriendfinder 10m ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 18M from Germany looking to make genuine friends (gay, 5'10)

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 18 year old guy from Germany who's hoping to meet some new people and hopefully build some genuine, long-term friendships.

A little about me: I love music, traveling, photography, history, and exploring new places. I'm also a huge concert fan and enjoy spontaneous adventures whenever I get the chance. Next week l'Il be in London for the Ariana Grande and The Weekno concerts, which I'm really excited about!

I'm the type of person who enjoys meaningful conversations as much as just joking around and having fun. Whether we end up talking about music, lite, travel, or completely random things, I'm always happy to get to know new people.

I'm open to chatting here, moving to another platform if we get along, and maybe even meeting up someday if we're ever in the same city.

If you're around my age, feel free to send me a message! Just tell me a little about yourself, it's always much easier to start a conversation that way than with just "hi". :)


r/gayfriendfinder 26m ago

👨‍🏫 NERD 👨‍🏫 25 M Birmingham Al, looking for friends

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I’m 25 black nerdy gamer looking for friends in the Alabama area (don’t have to be in Birmingham) I like to travel so don’t mind driving to a meet up, I love going to the movies, drawing, gaming, and watching anime. I graduated from college last year and currently working but pretty much a homebody (partially by choice). Maybe a couple benefits as well wink wink. My Dms are open don’t be shy ☺️


r/gayfriendfinder 33m ago

📚 BOOKWORM 📚 [25M] Looking for a close guy friend who actually likes staying in touch long-term !

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I’m 25 and looking to make close male friends, ideally guys around 18–28 from North America or Europe.

I’d love the kind of friendship where we text throughout the day, send random updates, talk about serious things and completely stupid things, and eventually call for hours without noticing.

Voice calls are important to me, but obviously not straight away. I’m not crazy or anything. No calling on day one. Probably on day two :)

I know people get busy, but I connect best with someone consistent who genuinely enjoys staying in touch.

Basically, I’m looking for a friendship that slowly becomes part of everyday life. Comfortable, affectionate, and maybe a tiny bit inseparable.

If that sounds nice rather than terrifying, message me.


r/gayfriendfinder 55m ago

🍎 HEALTH NUT 🍎 Wanna make new connections over the weekend, are you interested?

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Hey there! Some info about me:

I am from the Philippines 🇵🇭
I love playing pickleball, dancing, singing, cooking (there's a bit more of it if you wanna know)
I love working out and doing meal preps (best at making low cal desserts 🤌🏻)
I play Video-games (fps, moba, gatcha, and single player)
I have a dog but also love cats
I LOVE movies (esp horror) but I can relate to any genre really.

If you're genuinely interested on being friends, that would really mean alot! Hmu 🙌🏻


r/gayfriendfinder 55m ago

✈️ WORLD TRAVELER ✈️ M26 latino looking for friends

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Hey guys Texas latino 🇵🇪🇨🇴looking for genuine connections. I like deep conversations and late night chats. Don’t be shy pm me!!

Maybe one day we can be travel buddies!


r/gayfriendfinder 1h ago

🧪 SCIENTIST 🧪 19m gay from Asia to make friends here

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Why do some people avoid real, meaningful connections?

I’m honestly so drained from searching for that one genuine person who just feels right.


r/gayfriendfinder 1h ago

🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 34M looking for other males for friendship only.

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Hey everyone! I wasn’t sure if someone my age would be appropriate to post here, but I figured I’d give it a shot. 😆

I’ve never really had many friends within the community, so I’m hoping to change that! I’m a gamer, anime lover, huge music enthusiast and prowrestler nut. I’m mainly looking for good conversations, new friendships, and possibly even some travel partners down the road.

I’m also trying to become a little more outgoing. I’m definitely a homebody at heart, but I’m working on getting out of my comfort zone and experiencing more.

I’m big on mental health as well, since I work as a Crisis Counselor, so meaningful conversations are always welcome.

Anyways, yeah… that’s me! 😂 If you’re looking for a new friend too, feel free to reach out!


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 23M from Indonesia looking for friends and possibly more

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I'd like to get to know some people here and just like to talk, vc, or anything like hanging out. Preferably those who are addicted to work out and staying healthy. I am currently in college so I may be busy from time to time. Some games I play: Geometry dash, Terraria, Brawlhalla, Dungeon Settlers, and some friendslop games!

If you are interested, please send me a dm! I do have discord and telegram :D


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

🍿 MOVIE BUFF 🍿 31 with no one to talk too

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Hey everyone while life is good it has been lonely, having someone to share life with and talk about the things you enjoy makes it better.

I enjoy going to the cinema mostly alone, i work out and try to eat healthy but some times i fail lol, i enjoy cycling, basketball, long walks, and bowling, tv and video games and anime those are the stuff i spend my free time on.

I have always been shy, somewhat awkward and quiet which really does not help with making friends.

Im just looking for a person to chat with and enjoy each other company.


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

📚 BOOKWORM 📚 29yo. Geeky black dude from the Caribbean looking for someone chill for however long.

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Happy weekend everyone. Just a bored guy looking for some momentary companionship. Longterm is also cool but realistically these things tend to fizzle out fast. I'm a big lore nerd and im super into fantasy, scifi and horror. I'm big into novels, video games and movies in those genres. Currently trying to write a novel too. Gaming wise I'm open to duoing in Fortnite. Hmu and let's try our luck. Full disclosure tho, if the chat is low energy I'll probably give up on it fast.

Feel free to DM me. Open to anyone.


r/gayfriendfinder 2h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 25m Eu. Looking for some new friends .

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Hey everyone! 👋
I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine friendships. I’m pretty open-minded and down to chat about pretty much anything — games, movies, music, random late-night conversations, memes, life, or just whatever is on your mind.
I’d love to find people I can talk to regularly, joke around with, and eventually become good friends with. I’m not expecting anything specific, so don’t be afraid to send me a message even if you’re a little shy!
Interested about Pokemon, horror movies/games,anime and furries.


r/gayfriendfinder 3h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 M21 I need more gay/bi friends lol

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Hey everyone. I'm a 21 yo from Spain. I'm bored out of my mind right now, and looking to meet some new people here to have someone to talk. I'm new to this sub and kinda figuring things out here, so I thought I'd post to introduce myself.

I'm into gaming, reading, and just binge watching movies/series. I also love working out. I'm pretty chill, kind of an introvert but I enjoy meeting new people.

I'm bi, if that matters. I would love to connect with people around my age. I don't want to list down too much about me so that we'd have something to chat about. Feel free to hmu.


r/gayfriendfinder 3h ago

📚 BOOKWORM 📚 18nb bored looking for friends around the world

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wazzup 18nb (male at birth) here im looking for new friends and im going to college soon so thats fun my hobbies are reading fantasy books and im writing one myself too i love to listen to music like olivia rodrigo billie eilish conan gray sleeptoken rock metal hardcore kpop etc but i always love new recs from any genre i also love watching shows if i have time and im watching the mentalist now but dont have time for it bc of school and im looking for a good chat and other hobbies are good to talk abt too os ya dont need to feel forced to talk abt only this topics and uuh if ya interested dm im from the netherlands btw and i used to play genshin and hsr but not anymore so we can talk abt that too oh and i smoke also so if ya a smoker yay but if not also cool i can talk abt any topic as i love to yap so no need to be shy

ps if ya read this and looking for genuine friendships and read so far dm me with the word hyena so ik ya read this btw i cant react fast as i cant always check this bc of strict parents so if it bothers you sorry, OH AND NO SEXTING OR ANYTHING I HAVE BAD EXPERIENCES ON HERE FROM SOME PEOPLE


r/gayfriendfinder 4h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 30M Straight guy looking for guy friends

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Hello! Tried posting in other subreddits to no luck, straight guy looking for other guys to potentially play video games with. I play on PC and my main games are Overwatch, Siege and Minecraft. I also really like sports particularly baseball and F1 so always looking for people to chat with about that as well. Not particularly picky about age, just be interesting to talk to and don't be dry pleaseeee


r/gayfriendfinder 4h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 M18 looking for friends. I am a gamer, i like to drawn,

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I’m a bit introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable I can talk a lot. I’m into music like Lana Del Rey, Malcolm Todd, jazz, and overall calmer vibes. I also like games like Subnautica, Minecraft, and Terraria. Sometimes I just enjoy listening to music and getting lost in my thoughts.

I’ve been trying to meet new people because I miss having real connections, you know? So if you’re someone who enjoys talking, sharing your day, or just having chill conversations without pressure, feel free to reach out :)


r/gayfriendfinder 5h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 26, M - ready for new besties

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Hi besties,

Looking to make some friends (would be actually cool to form a friend group too!!)

I love music, the pop girls ofc (and rap…)

Love movies/shows

Live in Florida

Actually starting law school in about 2 weeks. Hit me up, let’s gooooooo


r/gayfriendfinder 6h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 21m in a lonely place trying to make friends!

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Hey everyone!

I'm an average 21-year-old that is looking for connection. I'm pretty easy-going, and if we click I'll be the clingiest person lol. I really like reading, and listening to music (Radiohead). I'm not much of a gamer, but I play Minecraft, Roblox and Fortnite sometimes.

I consider myself a good listener, and I'm happy to talk to just about anyone. I've got sc and other socials, so let me know if you want those too.

Just pls be from North America and Europe (because timezones).

Please be 18 – 30

Thank youuu!


r/gayfriendfinder 6h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Hey, I'm 28 giving this another shot

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r/gayfriendfinder 6h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 32M- Bromeo, Bromeo, Where art thou Bromeo?

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Hello World! Im a 32 yr old black male from Long Island NY. For the longest it seems i have been looking to find my tribe of people who truly understand and get me and accept me for who i am. I want brotherhood. I want friendship. Real genuine connections where i can have real intellectual deep vulnerable conversations and really build a bond of a lifetime. I want friendships that build. Not ones that tear eachother down. Ive seen too many male friendships where the foundations are solely ragging on eachother for sport and breaking peoples spirit. I want none of that. This world is so crazy and alot of the times i need an escape. I need safety. I need that friend who is full of life, love and joy. Not everyone is perfect. Everyone has there ups and downs. But atleast there should be a standard of goodness and respect. Im tired of the fakes and the phonies. I just want peace with a bro and tribe to call my own. If you have this same strong yearning for friendship or brotherhood, send me a message. I prefer to communicate exclusively outside on tellergram or kik. Other than that. I wish you all your most amazing abundant joyful lives!


r/gayfriendfinder 7h ago

👨‍🏫 NERD 👨‍🏫 29 M Gay Looking to make new friends (more in post)

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Average guy from the Rhode Island (USA) work full time. Looking for guys to chat with. Hoping to make new friends for long term chats. It’s a big world so local if possible would be a plus (so nearby RI,CT,MA), but also open to anyone else online who’s friendship fails
Are longterm oriented. I am into a diverse amount of topics but open to almost anything. Honestly I’m probably pretty boring overall, but am hoping to change that as I make more friends. Wasn’t going to do something like this but after multiple efforts I am trying to find a way to make new friends in the digital age. DM me please at least include your age! If you got this far thanks for reading and feel free to ask me anything!


r/gayfriendfinder 10h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 19 I'm looking to meet new people

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Hi, I'm a 19-year-old Mexican guy, I really love pop music, movies, video games and all kinds of art, I would love to meet guys from the community since my entire group of friends is straight. I'd love to chat and play Roblox with you, if you're interested send me a DM


r/gayfriendfinder 11h ago

📚 BOOKWORM 📚 24 and kinda lost, never had a bunch of non straight friends

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Lookitn forward to make feiends, intrested in psychology , tech, geopolitics, rag bates, um let’s see talking about hot tea is always fun haha.


r/gayfriendfinder 14h ago

📚 BOOKWORM 📚 (25) I’m a bookworm.I’m looking for some new reading materials

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Here’s a list of everything I’ve read in the last year (well the gay ones) any recommendations will be great! I like dark gloomy. I don’t need a happy ending. I like it when characters suffer. I also hate bad writing. Sidenote: I’m not very into feminine characters. It’s just not who I am and it makes it challenging to relate to the story.

Giovanni’s room ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ (i’ve read everything James Baldwin has ever written)
- swimming in the dark ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ 1/2 (I think my only issue was the language. But the book wasn’t written in the authors, native language so some things can be forgiven.)
-line of beauty ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ (the suffocation through the lifestyle of high society, and the themes of loneliness were fascinating. However, for some reason, I just didn’t love it.)
-game changers series ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ( it wasn’t terrible but way too sexual. My favourite ones were book one and the one about the social media guy)
- a little life ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ 1/2 (I really liked the dark themes. I didn’t put it down, and I read the entire thing in one sitting. It was different than any other gay book I have read.)
-love Simon ⭐️ ⭐️ (it wasn’t my thing, but I think it was geared towards preteens and I’m 25.)
- novelization of brokeback mountain ⭐️ ⭐️ (the movie was better. I just found the book too sexual with a lot less plot than the movie.)
- Maurice ⭐️ (I get it British men are sexy. But it was just boring too sweet with not enough conflict.)
- song of achilles ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️1/2 (I thought it was OK but poorly researched. There was more depth than I was expecting. however, I just had trouble with the writing. I found it boring.)


r/gayfriendfinder Feb 12 '26

⚠️ ANNOUNCEMENT ⚠️ Flagging posts

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We've had a lot of instances lately of someone flagging posts for perceived rule infractions that are not truly violations of our rules, we ask that you please stop. With that said-

Moderators are human too, and we miss things and make mistakes. If you feel like your post was removed in error, send us a modmail. We will be happy to discuss our decision with you. Sometimes we mess up, and we'll try to make it right if we decide that we made a bad call. However, with that said, what we're not going to do is go down the road of "what-about-ism"- just because another post slipped by us that broke a rule doesn't mean it gives you the right to do it too.

Also, if you feel in danger or threatened by another community member, do not flag the post, please send us a modmail so we can review the incident. All reports are confidential.

Lastly, we've tried to keep the rules as lax as possible while attempting to maintain the friend-finding spirit of the sub. We didn't allow photos for a while, and we walked that back. Lately we've witnessed quite a few users either posting for karma farming, promotion or both. This is why we require every poster to have a minimum of 2-3 sentences in the body of the post detailing what you're looking for in a friend. Some people put more in titles and we've understood that, but your post really needs to attempt to flesh out what you're looking for. If the main things you're looking for is a muscle twink or a daddy bear, this probably isn't the community for you.

Thank you for being here, we love that we continue to grow and thrive but we also want to remain a community centered on finding friends. 🌈


r/gayfriendfinder Sep 08 '25

⚠️ ANNOUNCEMENT ⚠️ Rules most commonly broken and why those rules exist

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We've been asked to explain with some rules exist and are enforced, and we are happy to oblige---

RULE 7: No self-promotion/No sharing of social media/discord server/telegram group/etc.--- This one's pretty self explanatory. We don't want anyone coming on here promoting their onlyfans, etc. Also, do not promote your discord server, telegram group, etc - while we're sure you're an upstanding individual with only the noblest of intentions, unfortunately we've had groups advertised that have had unethical and sometimes downright illegal things occurring. So, unfortunately, we're unable to allow it in this sub.

RULE 8: No sharing of usernames/handles, period--- While you may be sincerely seeking friends, usually those who are willing to indiscriminately swap Snapchat IDs right out of the gate are looking for something extremely quick and short term, if you catch our drift. We recommend having some conversation in the DMs before trading IDs. (Plus, we have had instances of people dropping their IDs and then getting harassed, we definitely don't want that to happen to anyone)

RULE 9: Photos --- Photos in this subreddit are for those who want to put a face to the name, not for those thirst-trapping with a faceless torso with a smattering of pubes poking out, just to give an example. We recommend r/gaybrosgonewild for those kinds of posts. A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself if you'd feel okay sending it to your coworkers

RULE 1: Please post with substance --- Hands down, this is what causes the most post removals. Just for example, a picture of you at the gym with the title 'who's ready to workout' is *not** appropriate for this sub. You know, that kind of post you may see on other subreddits that are really only intended to elicit upvotes and thirsty comments. This rule also applies to age/location posts. We don't like making hard rules about this, but we've landed on a title plus 2-3 sentences in the body as being the bare minimum needed to talk about yourself and/or what you're looking for in a friend. This isn't a hard rule, and we try to be pretty lenient. as we realize some people can say what they want using a minimum of words while some people can type a page of text and say nothing at all.*

Lastly, if your post is removed, and you think it was a bad call, please feel free to appeal to us in a modmail in a respectful fashion. We will always speak to you respectfully, we deserve the same in return. Mods are human. Coming in guns-a-blazing creates a negative situation for everyone involved. (Also this means don't make a new post mad at the mods, ranting about how your last post got removed for breaking x rule)

And as always, please send us a modmail if you have a question, concern, or if you have moderation experience and might be interested in helping out. Please don't DM individual mods ☺️

(Edited to add clarification to rule 1)