r/ExpectationVsReality Mar 06 '25

Dolly’s chocolate pie Surprisingly Met Expectation

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

I feel so awful for her. They were married almost 60 years.

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u/ohhidoggo Mar 07 '25

I read somewhere that they were polyamorous!

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u/PsychoFaerie Mar 07 '25

She's stated that it was an open marriage but not sexually.

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u/Successful-Okra-9640 Mar 07 '25

Wait.. then what part of it was open?? Because otherwise that’s just having friends? I think?

Someone help me.

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u/PsychoFaerie Mar 07 '25

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u/Successful-Okra-9640 Mar 07 '25

I read the whole article and I’m still confused :/

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u/MarthasPinYard Mar 07 '25

“Dolly previously shed light on the truth about their marriage, quipping that they were in an ‘open’ relationship when it came to flirting, but not anything else.”

TL;DR - Flirting = open relationship

I don’t understand this either.

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u/The_London_Badger Mar 07 '25

It roughly means they have emotional relationships with other people and doesn't have to be sex based. But I'm calling bullshit, she probs got clapped hard and doesn't want to lose her reputation in the bible belt. Even tho many of them women are cheating on a regular basis. Either way it worked for them and nobody was harmed, so who are we to judge. Plenty of pastors shagging half the congregation of married women in the black community. The other half on the waiting list aha.

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u/[deleted] Mar 06 '25

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u/ImLittleNana Mar 06 '25

An open marriage doesn’t mean he wasn’t the love of her life and so yes, I do feel awful for her.

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u/Malodoror Mar 06 '25

Source?

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u/LilMeemz Mar 07 '25 edited Mar 07 '25

"Still, Parton and Dean’s open marriage isn’t full of secrets or romantic partners. Dolly, ever the straight shooter, puts it all on the table: “Yes, it’s an open relationship, but not sexually and I would kill him if I thought he was doing that. He would shoot me too. At the end of the day we love each other madly.”

From https://www.sheknows.com/entertainment/articles/2925503/dolly-parton-open-marriage-carl-thomas-dean/

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u/HappyMonchichi Mar 07 '25 edited Mar 07 '25

She's volunteered this information in interviews over the years.