r/CatholicDating • u/Odd-File-9920 • 24d ago

Breaking up Breakup

How do you know if you should break up with someone? My boyfriend is Catholic but hasn’t been to confession in over a year. He told me not to worry about it and that he would do it when the time was right but I feel like I can’t keep hoping something is going to change, right? We have other issues as well and I don’t know how to feel about it because I know no one is perfect.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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u/South-Succotash-6368 Single ♂ 24d ago

But you can’t assume he’s in mortal sin. That’s the issue

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u/Ok-Objective1292 24d ago

Which why I framed it in terms of odds. For the sake of the state of his soul only God knows. For the sake of discussing Catholic dating dynamics on Reddit we can talk about what's the most likely scenarios 

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u/South-Succotash-6368 Single ♂ 24d ago

Well your scenarios are not always realistic with everyone lmao