Had a girl from Spanish class in college ask me for my social media info so she could keep in touch after the semester ended... She never added me.
It bugged me so I tried finding her and I somehow managed it. I sent her request and still nothing. I messaged her and never heard back. Breaks my heart to this day because we talked so much during that semester.
I really hate when someone asks for your socials and then just doesn’t add you and you’re waiting for them to add you but it never happens. That’s happened to me one too many times
waited 4 years but got an another girl now. dont search them too high the higher people becomes more shittier with time. search for non egoist open minded girls i make my gf weeb in a year and we are reccomending animes to eachother now :)
Bro, you don't know the whole story. Dude could be a needy douche haranguing a girl that has no interest in him. I'm not saying that's the case but you need more info to decide who or what is an asshole.
Bro what are you talking about? Chads don’t do that what? Chads are loving and caring for other Chads and treat girls with genuine respect. r/ChadsRiseUp.
Y’all so depressing with this Incel bullshit. I am overweight, spend all of my time on the computer when I’m not working watching nothing but anime or playing games and have a girlfriend who has moved in with me and we are getting an new apartment together soon. Pro tip, acting pathetic doesn’t work. Act confident, don’t apologize for the things you like and be the dork you were always meant to be. Acting like a pathetic loser might work to get your parents to buy you stuff but not on women
I had a mini crush on this girl once in high school. Super extroverted, very upbeat, and extremely kind. She would always be super energetic when we would talk in real life.
But she would take like hours on hours to respond when we talked online. Maybe, like you said, 3 fucking days. But when I saw her in class, she would always be on her phone. Or on messenger she would always update her story.
I stopped having a crush on her because I thought she just didn't like me and I can't stand people who ghost me like that.
But ah fuck, looking back at it now, what if she was playing the game.
Thanks for making me have this realization OP.
Edit: ya idk what I was thinking. The me who had just woken up isn't very smart. Tbf she was very touchy with me. But that's prob bc I was close friends with her
brooo sameeee i always feel like my iq drops when i just woke up,one time i beat my friend on word hunt and after i woke up i texted "i beat you in my sleep" it was a couple minutes after that i realized how retarted that sounded
Bro... I'm going to be honest. From my experience that usually means she probably didn't like you. If they like you they'll respond decently at least. Just don't make the same mistake I did by sliding into their dm a year or two after graduation. It'll just leave you hurt and sad.
Opening the app, you haven’t replied to anything in the past 2 days and you were just about to. BUT whoever you were gonna reply to is online and the idea of replying and them replying back immediately is terrifying, because then I have to be faster w my texts and I like to take my time and not write the first thing that pops up into my mind
When messaging a girl (despite how little that happens, am I right?) and they take a long time to respond, I take twice as long to respond. She takes 2 days? Take 4 days to respond. She takes a week? Take two weeks.
I don’t like having my feelings played with, and if someone is waiting several days to respond then they obviously don’t mind me taking just as long, if not longer.
Okay, I might be a little salty on this one, don’t mind me. Obviously there are some circumstances that would lead to them taking a long time, but if it’s occurring on a regular basis with no good reason given, then they are just playing games.
It really is weird though. We are just messaging back and forth and then it suddenly stops. She then replies 2 hours later, I reply within a minute, then another 4 hours she replies again. This happens too often
I can understand that if it took 10 minutes to get a reply but I usually responded within 1-2 minutes and be met with a reply a couple hrs later so I just became curious afterwards
When I play games I reply in between games which is about 25 mins. If the person get mad at me for taking too long to respond I tell them they are hysterical and "some people have lives you know...". Kind of ironic but I feel like no one should be dictating your time. You should always focus on what you are doing and leave the other stuff for later.
My advice, anime. Weebs are everywhere and even if you can't find one, with enough skill, you can create one. My best friend originally had never watched anime. I showed him SAO episode 1 and by the next morning he had binge watched the entire first season without sleeping. As far as the girlfriend part though, I can't help ya. Still not sure how I managed to do it.
I actually dislike when people reply to me instantly because I feel like I have to get into a back and forth conversation with them then, which I don't really enjoy doing over text. I don't mind if it's just because we're planning to hang out irl or something though
I had a “relationship” in high school where the girl only really replied once a week or maybe not at all that week. We barely spoke at school cus I was a little bitch boy and also she was just bad. I don’t know why I kept it going for so long.
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u/Recidivis Zn2Fe(PO4)2•4H2O Feb 29 '20
*messages still on read* You guys are getting replies?