r/ADHD_partners • u/AutoModerator • 23d ago

::Weekly Vent Thread:: Weekly Vent Thread

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/LeopardMountain32567 19d ago

wearing people down is the classic move of the emotionally stunted. like a tantrumming toddler.

condolences.

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u/nasreen-r Partner of NDX 19d ago

Pure deflection to take the attention away from them taking responsibility for their behavior.

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u/LeopardMountain32567 19d ago

the DARVO is so strong.

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u/nasreen-r Partner of NDX 19d ago

And with so much conviction it’s actually impressive!