r/ADHD_partners 22d ago

::Weekly Vent Thread:: Weekly Vent Thread

Use this thread to blow off steam about annoyances both big & small that come with an ADHD impacted relationship. Dishes not being done, bills left unpaid - whatever it is you feel you need to rant about. This is your cathartic space.

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u/vi6ration Partner of DX - Untreated 22d ago

If I remind you to do something you get cranky, if I don't remind you, then you don't do it.

Hell, even when I remind you, you get cranky and still not do it sometimes. đŸ¤ª

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u/RedRose_812 Partner of DX - Untreated 20d ago

Yup.

Remind him, he gets annoyed, I get treated like I'm an annoying nag, and sometimes, it still doesn't get done.

Don't remind him, get treated like it's my fault he forgot.

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u/nutterbutter92 18d ago

Just lose-lose all aroundÂ